What does non-binary joy really look like? In this personal reflection, Zaccaria explores the quiet power of queer celebration—from chosen family to protest, from public expression to private peace—and why joy itself is a radical act of resistance.

Coming out as non-binary isn’t a single milestone—it’s a lifelong, situational journey. In this personal essay, Zaccaria reflects on what it means to come out again and again: to friends, family, in public, and most importantly, to yourself. It’s messy, powerful, exhausting—and deeply human.